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fragrant rituals inspired by comfort, sanctuary, love, serendipity, and the quiet magic of the season

FALL CANDLES & WAX MELTS
made in the softest washed silk charmeuse, this hidden button front night dress can be worn as a robe or shirtdress , in and outside of the boudoir belt loop is subtly and discretely hidden behind the back placket complete with resting pockets wear with a je mérite coordinating bottom or chemise soft collar v-neck neckline subtle slits at sides removable belt sensual fit midi length washed 100% silk charmeuse designed and made in new york city, new york - available in 0/2-20/22

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experience lola, donna, and josephine collections in our signature noire silk

NOIRE LOUNGEWEAR

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an offering of love, hope, and care for every woman and every journey
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Candle tin with 'je mérite l'amour' text on a white background
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i deserve peace candle - vanilla, lavender, & cashmere
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i deserve healing candle - jasmine, honeysuckle, & baby powder
i deserve healing candle - jasmine, honeysuckle, & baby powder

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cover printed with logo and “i deserve” mantra written by our founder, tamara charese dimensions: 6.5" x 8.75" 80 black and white lined pages college ruled lay flat spiral binding
cover printed with logo and “i deserve” mantra written by our founder, tamara charese dimensions: 6.5" x 8.75" 80 black and white lined pages college ruled lay flat spiral binding
cover printed with logo and “i deserve” mantra written by our founder, tamara charese dimensions: 6.5" x 8.75" 80 black and white lined pages college ruled lay flat spiral binding

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i deserve adventure candle - dragon's blood, sandalwood, & basil
i deserve adventure candle - dragon's blood, sandalwood, & basil
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i deserve sanctuary candle - black cardamom, vanilla, & leather
i deserve sanctuary candle - black cardamom, vanilla, & leather
i deserve sanctuary candle - black cardamom, vanilla, & leather
i deserve sanctuary candle - black cardamom, vanilla, & leather

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je mérite was created from a simple belief

you deserve softness before burnout, peace before exhaustion, and joy without permission

notes from my muses

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affirm

i deserve love, friendship, and laughter
i deserve peace, grace, and rest
not because of beauty, not because of intelligence, nor because i work hard
not because of riches nor privilege nor stature
i deserve it because i exist
i deserve and so do you
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