This site has limited support for your browser. We recommend switching to Edge, Chrome, Safari, or Firefox.

AFFIRM

Je Mérite D’être Responsabilisé

I Deserve To Be Empowered

Power can be taken, but not given. the process of the taking is empowerment in itself.”

Gloria Steinem

meet lola

Our 100% silk collection forms the foundation of your self-care wardrobe

Named for muse, Lola Falana

meet donna

A limited edition collection of 100% silk sheer nightdresses and shirt dresses to enrich your self care wardrobe

Named for muse, Donna Summer

meet josephine

Our silk velvet collection in noire and perle noire print will elevate your self-care wardrobe

Named for muse, Josephine Baker

i deserve peace

Inspired by sunlit showers, essential oils, affirmations, & herbal teas

Notes of vanilla, lilac, lavender, & cashmere

i deserve rest

Inspired by staycations, sleeping in, facials, bath bombs, & long walks

Notes of cashmere, musk, eucalyptus, & lavender

i deserve love

Inspired by romance, candlelit rooms, seductive glances, & flirtatious laughter

Notes of rose, black cherry, oud & eucalyptus

i deserve healing

Inspired by endless summers, blooming flowers, late sunsets, & warm breezes

Notes of jasmine, honeysuckle, & baby powder

i deserve joy

Inspired by childhood, summer vacation, infectious laughter, & freshly cut grass

Notes of cucumber, honeydew melon, saltwater & petrichor

travel candles

Embark on a journey of Serenity with our voyager candles

Discover our 5 signature affirmation scents: love, peace, rest, healing, and joy

affirm

I deserve love, friendship, and laughter

I deserve peace, grace, and rest

Not because of beauty, not because of intelligence, nor because I work hard

Not because of riches nor privilege nor stature

I deserve it because I exist, I deserve and so do you

made in the softest washed silk charmeuse,the silk chemise (gown) is lined for added comfort  wear barefoot, with a soft fuzzy slipper for a night in, or a strappy heel for a night on the town  v-neck neckline adjustable shoulder straps side slits slim, sensual fit midi length  shell - washed 100% silk charmeuse lining - 100% polyester charmeuse  designed in new york city, new york made in new york city, new york  size details - available in 0/2-20/22 models are wearing a size 4/6 and 12/14
made in the softest washed silk charmeuse,the silk chemise (gown) is lined for added comfort  wear barefoot, with a soft fuzzy slipper for a night in, or a strappy heel for a night on the town  v-neck neckline adjustable shoulder straps side slits slim, sensual fit midi length  shell - washed 100% silk charmeuse lining - 100% polyester charmeuse  designed in new york city, new york made in new york city, new york  size details - available in 0/2-20/22 models are wearing a size 4/6 and 12/14
made in the softest washed silk charmeuse,the silk chemise (gown) is lined for added comfort  wear barefoot, with a soft fuzzy slipper for a night in, or a strappy heel for a night on the town  v-neck neckline adjustable shoulder straps side slits slim, sensual fit midi length  shell - washed 100% silk charmeuse lining - 100% polyester charmeuse  designed in new york city, new york made in new york city, new york  size details - available in 0/2-20/22 models are wearing a size 4/6 and 12/14
made in the softest washed silk charmeuse,the silk chemise (gown) is lined for added comfort  wear barefoot, with a soft fuzzy slipper for a night in, or a strappy heel for a night on the town  v-neck neckline adjustable shoulder straps side slits slim, sensual fit midi length  shell - washed 100% silk charmeuse lining - 100% polyester charmeuse  designed in new york city, new york made in new york city, new york  size details - available in 0/2-20/22 models are wearing a size 4/6 and 12/14
made in the softest washed silk charmeuse,the silk chemise (gown) is lined for added comfort  wear barefoot, with a soft fuzzy slipper for a night in, or a strappy heel for a night on the town  v-neck neckline adjustable shoulder straps side slits slim, sensual fit midi length  shell - washed 100% silk charmeuse lining - 100% polyester charmeuse  designed in new york city, new york made in new york city, new york  size details - available in 0/2-20/22 models are wearing a size 4/6 and 12/14
made in the softest washed silk charmeuse,the silk chemise (gown) is lined for added comfort  wear barefoot, with a soft fuzzy slipper for a night in, or a strappy heel for a night on the town  v-neck neckline adjustable shoulder straps side slits slim, sensual fit midi length  shell - washed 100% silk charmeuse lining - 100% polyester charmeuse  designed in new york city, new york made in new york city, new york  size details - available in 0/2-20/22 models are wearing a size 4/6 and 12/14
jemerite_chemise_noire_275usd
BEST SELLER
 
pre-order
made in the softest washed silk charmeuse, our silk camisole is lined for added comfort and versatility  thin adjustable straps and slits at both sides  wear with a je mérite coordinating bottom, your favorite skirt or pant  v-neck neckline adjustable shoulder straps slits at both sides sensual fit  shell - washed 100% silk charmeuse lining - 100% polyester charmeuse  designed in new york city, new york made in new york city, new york  size/fit - Models are wearing a sizes 4/6 and 12/14
made in the softest washed silk charmeuse, our silk camisole is lined for added comfort and versatility  thin adjustable straps and slits at both sides  wear with a je mérite coordinating bottom, your favorite skirt or pant  v-neck neckline adjustable shoulder straps slits at both sides sensual fit  shell - washed 100% silk charmeuse lining - 100% polyester charmeuse  designed in new york city, new york made in new york city, new york  size/fit - Models are wearing a sizes 4/6 and 12/14
made in the softest washed silk charmeuse, our silk camisole is lined for added comfort and versatility  thin adjustable straps and slits at both sides  wear with a je mérite coordinating bottom, your favorite skirt or pant  v-neck neckline adjustable shoulder straps slits at both sides sensual fit  shell - washed 100% silk charmeuse lining - 100% polyester charmeuse  designed in new york city, new york made in new york city, new york  size/fit - Models are wearing a sizes 4/6 and 12/14
made in the softest washed silk charmeuse, our silk camisole is lined for added comfort and versatility  thin adjustable straps and slits at both sides  wear with a je mérite coordinating bottom, your favorite skirt or pant  v-neck neckline adjustable shoulder straps slits at both sides sensual fit  shell - washed 100% silk charmeuse lining - 100% polyester charmeuse  designed in new york city, new york made in new york city, new york  size/fit - Models are wearing a sizes 4/6 and 12/14
made in the softest washed silk charmeuse, our silk camisole is lined for added comfort and versatility  thin adjustable straps and slits at both sides  wear with a je mérite coordinating bottom, your favorite skirt or pant  v-neck neckline adjustable shoulder straps slits at both sides sensual fit  shell - washed 100% silk charmeuse lining - 100% polyester charmeuse  designed in new york city, new york made in new york city, new york  size/fit - Models are wearing a sizes 4/6 and 12/14
made in the softest washed silk charmeuse, our silk camisole is lined for added comfort and versatility  thin adjustable straps and slits at both sides  wear with a je mérite coordinating bottom, your favorite skirt or pant  v-neck neckline adjustable shoulder straps slits at both sides sensual fit  shell - washed 100% silk charmeuse lining - 100% polyester charmeuse  designed in new york city, new york made in new york city, new york  size/fit - Models are wearing a sizes 4/6 and 12/14
jemerite_camisole_noire_195usd
BEST SELLER
lola silk camisole in citron
lola silk camisole in citron
lola silk camisole in citron
lola silk camisole in citron
lola silk camisole in citron
LIMITED
lola silk camisole in aubergine
lola silk camisole in aubergine
lola silk camisole in aubergine
lola silk camisole in aubergine
lola silk camisole in aubergine
LIMITED
 
pre-order
made in the softest washed silk charmeuse, this double-breasted wrap robe has long bell sleeves  wear barefoot, with a soft fuzzy slipper for a night in, or a strappy heel for a night on the town  soft collar wrap belt (not removable) relaxed fit midi length  washed 100% silk charmeuse  designed in new york city, new york made in new york city, new york   size details - available in 0/2-20/22
made in the softest washed silk charmeuse, this double-breasted wrap robe has long bell sleeves  wear barefoot, with a soft fuzzy slipper for a night in, or a strappy heel for a night on the town  soft collar wrap belt (not removable) relaxed fit midi length  washed 100% silk charmeuse  designed in new york city, new york made in new york city, new york   size details - available in 0/2-20/22
made in the softest washed silk charmeuse, this double-breasted wrap robe has long bell sleeves  wear barefoot, with a soft fuzzy slipper for a night in, or a strappy heel for a night on the town  soft collar wrap belt (not removable) relaxed fit midi length  washed 100% silk charmeuse  designed in new york city, new york made in new york city, new york   size details - available in 0/2-20/22
made in the softest washed silk charmeuse, this double-breasted wrap robe has long bell sleeves  wear barefoot, with a soft fuzzy slipper for a night in, or a strappy heel for a night on the town  soft collar wrap belt (not removable) relaxed fit midi length  washed 100% silk charmeuse  designed in new york city, new york made in new york city, new york   size details - available in 0/2-20/22
made in the softest washed silk charmeuse, this double-breasted wrap robe has long bell sleeves  wear barefoot, with a soft fuzzy slipper for a night in, or a strappy heel for a night on the town  soft collar wrap belt (not removable) relaxed fit midi length  washed 100% silk charmeuse  designed in new york city, new york made in new york city, new york   size details - available in 0/2-20/22
made in the softest washed silk charmeuse, this double-breasted wrap robe has long bell sleeves  wear barefoot, with a soft fuzzy slipper for a night in, or a strappy heel for a night on the town  soft collar wrap belt (not removable) relaxed fit midi length  washed 100% silk charmeuse  designed in new york city, new york made in new york city, new york   size details - available in 0/2-20/22
jemerite_wrap_robe_noire_studio1_285usd
wear as a duster or a wrap robe wear as soft suiting, mini dress, blazer dress  slits at either side for access to pockets  made in the softest washed silk charmeuse  wear barefoot, with a soft fuzzy slipper for a night in, or a strappy heel for a night on the town  soft collar belt (removable at hidden back loop) relaxed fit mini length  washed 100% silk charmeuse  designed in new york city, new york made in new york city, new york   size details - available in 0/2-20/22
wear as a duster or a wrap robe wear as soft suiting, mini dress, blazer dress  slits at either side for access to pockets  made in the softest washed silk charmeuse  wear barefoot, with a soft fuzzy slipper for a night in, or a strappy heel for a night on the town  soft collar belt (removable at hidden back loop) relaxed fit mini length  washed 100% silk charmeuse  designed in new york city, new york made in new york city, new york   size details - available in 0/2-20/22
wear as a duster or a wrap robe wear as soft suiting, mini dress, blazer dress  slits at either side for access to pockets  made in the softest washed silk charmeuse  wear barefoot, with a soft fuzzy slipper for a night in, or a strappy heel for a night on the town  soft collar belt (removable at hidden back loop) relaxed fit mini length  washed 100% silk charmeuse  designed in new york city, new york made in new york city, new york   size details - available in 0/2-20/22
wear as a duster or a wrap robe wear as soft suiting, mini dress, blazer dress  slits at either side for access to pockets  made in the softest washed silk charmeuse  wear barefoot, with a soft fuzzy slipper for a night in, or a strappy heel for a night on the town  soft collar belt (removable at hidden back loop) relaxed fit mini length  washed 100% silk charmeuse  designed in new york city, new york made in new york city, new york   size details - available in 0/2-20/22
wear as a duster or a wrap robe wear as soft suiting, mini dress, blazer dress  slits at either side for access to pockets  made in the softest washed silk charmeuse  wear barefoot, with a soft fuzzy slipper for a night in, or a strappy heel for a night on the town  soft collar belt (removable at hidden back loop) relaxed fit mini length  washed 100% silk charmeuse  designed in new york city, new york made in new york city, new york   size details - available in 0/2-20/22
wear as a duster or a wrap robe wear as soft suiting, mini dress, blazer dress  slits at either side for access to pockets  made in the softest washed silk charmeuse  wear barefoot, with a soft fuzzy slipper for a night in, or a strappy heel for a night on the town  soft collar belt (removable at hidden back loop) relaxed fit mini length  washed 100% silk charmeuse  designed in new york city, new york made in new york city, new york   size details - available in 0/2-20/22
Pre-order
lola silk short robe in aubergine
lola silk short robe in aubergine
lola silk short robe in aubergine
lola silk short robe in aubergine
lola silk short robe in aubergine
LIMITED
lola silk short robe in blush
lola silk short robe in blush
lola silk short robe in blush
lola silk short robe in blush
lola silk short robe in blush
LIMITED
 
Pre-order
lola silk short robe in lavender
lola silk short robe in lavender
lola silk short robe in lavender
lola silk short robe in lavender
lola silk short robe in lavender
LIMITED
made in the softest washed silk charmeuse, this pleated short has an elastic waistband and drawstring closure  wear with a je mérite coordinating top or your favorite lingerie  wide elastic waist with drawstring closure sits at natural waist side slits slightly longer at the back sensual fit  washed 100% silk charmeuse  designed in new york city, new york made in new york city, new york   size details - available in 0/2-20/22
made in the softest washed silk charmeuse, this pleated short has an elastic waistband and drawstring closure  wear with a je mérite coordinating top or your favorite lingerie  wide elastic waist with drawstring closure sits at natural waist side slits slightly longer at the back sensual fit  washed 100% silk charmeuse  designed in new york city, new york made in new york city, new york   size details - available in 0/2-20/22
made in the softest washed silk charmeuse, this pleated short has an elastic waistband and drawstring closure  wear with a je mérite coordinating top or your favorite lingerie  wide elastic waist with drawstring closure sits at natural waist side slits slightly longer at the back sensual fit  washed 100% silk charmeuse  designed in new york city, new york made in new york city, new york   size details - available in 0/2-20/22
made in the softest washed silk charmeuse, this pleated short has an elastic waistband and drawstring closure  wear with a je mérite coordinating top or your favorite lingerie  wide elastic waist with drawstring closure sits at natural waist side slits slightly longer at the back sensual fit  washed 100% silk charmeuse  designed in new york city, new york made in new york city, new york   size details - available in 0/2-20/22
made in the softest washed silk charmeuse, this pleated short has an elastic waistband and drawstring closure  wear with a je mérite coordinating top or your favorite lingerie  wide elastic waist with drawstring closure sits at natural waist side slits slightly longer at the back sensual fit  washed 100% silk charmeuse  designed in new york city, new york made in new york city, new york   size details - available in 0/2-20/22
made in the softest washed silk charmeuse, this pleated short has an elastic waistband and drawstring closure  wear with a je mérite coordinating top or your favorite lingerie  wide elastic waist with drawstring closure sits at natural waist side slits slightly longer at the back sensual fit  washed 100% silk charmeuse  designed in new york city, new york made in new york city, new york   size details - available in 0/2-20/22
jemerite_pleated_tap_short_noire_195usd
BEST SELLER
lola silk short in argento
lola silk short in argento
lola silk short in argento
lola silk short in argento
lola silk short in argento
LIMITED
lola silk short in citron
lola silk short in citron
lola silk short in citron
lola silk short in citron
lola silk short in citron
LIMITED
 
Pre-order
made in the softest washed silk charmeuse, this tuxedo pajama pant has an elastic waistband and drawstring closure  wear with a je mérite coordinating top or your favorite lingerie  wide elastic waist with drawstring closure pockets sits at natural waist tuxedo panels wide leg  washed 100% silk charmeuse  designed in new york city, new york made in new york city, new york   size details - available in 0/2-20/22
made in the softest washed silk charmeuse, this tuxedo pajama pant has an elastic waistband and drawstring closure  wear with a je mérite coordinating top or your favorite lingerie  wide elastic waist with drawstring closure pockets sits at natural waist tuxedo panels wide leg  washed 100% silk charmeuse  designed in new york city, new york made in new york city, new york   size details - available in 0/2-20/22
made in the softest washed silk charmeuse, this tuxedo pajama pant has an elastic waistband and drawstring closure  wear with a je mérite coordinating top or your favorite lingerie  wide elastic waist with drawstring closure pockets sits at natural waist tuxedo panels wide leg  washed 100% silk charmeuse  designed in new york city, new york made in new york city, new york   size details - available in 0/2-20/22
made in the softest washed silk charmeuse, this tuxedo pajama pant has an elastic waistband and drawstring closure  wear with a je mérite coordinating top or your favorite lingerie  wide elastic waist with drawstring closure pockets sits at natural waist tuxedo panels wide leg  washed 100% silk charmeuse  designed in new york city, new york made in new york city, new york   size details - available in 0/2-20/22
made in the softest washed silk charmeuse, this tuxedo pajama pant has an elastic waistband and drawstring closure  wear with a je mérite coordinating top or your favorite lingerie  wide elastic waist with drawstring closure pockets sits at natural waist tuxedo panels wide leg  washed 100% silk charmeuse  designed in new york city, new york made in new york city, new york   size details - available in 0/2-20/22
made in the softest washed silk charmeuse, this tuxedo pajama pant has an elastic waistband and drawstring closure  wear with a je mérite coordinating top or your favorite lingerie  wide elastic waist with drawstring closure pockets sits at natural waist tuxedo panels wide leg  washed 100% silk charmeuse  designed in new york city, new york made in new york city, new york   size details - available in 0/2-20/22
made in the softest washed silk charmeuse, this tuxedo pajama pant has an elastic waistband and drawstring closure  wear with a je mérite coordinating top or your favorite lingerie  wide elastic waist with drawstring closure pockets sits at natural waist tuxedo panels wide leg  washed 100% silk charmeuse  designed in new york city, new york made in new york city, new york   size details - available in 0/2-20/22
josephine silk velvet tuxedo pant in noire
josephine silk velvet tuxedo pant in noire
josephine silk velvet tuxedo pant in noire
josephine silk velvet tuxedo pant in noire
josephine silk velvet tuxedo pant in noire
Pre-order
cover printed with logo and “i deserve” mantra written by our founder, tamara charese dimensions: 6.5" x 8.75" 80 black and white lined pages college ruled lay flat spiral binding
cover printed with logo and “i deserve” mantra written by our founder, tamara charese dimensions: 6.5" x 8.75" 80 black and white lined pages college ruled lay flat spiral binding
cover printed with logo and “i deserve” mantra written by our founder, tamara charese dimensions: 6.5" x 8.75" 80 black and white lined pages college ruled lay flat spiral binding

mantra notebook

$18.00
 
"i deserve love" affirmation candle
"i deserve love" affirmation candle
"i deserve love" affirmation candle
BEST SELLER
jemerite_affirmrestcandle_40usd
"i deserve rest" affirmation candle
jemerite_affirmrestcandle_40usd
BEST SELLER
"i deserve" affirmation travel candle
"i deserve" affirmation travel candle
"i deserve" affirmation travel candle
"i deserve" affirmation travel candle
"i deserve" affirmation travel candle
"i deserve" affirmation travel candle
BEST SELLER
limited edition "i deserve love" affirmation candle
LIMITED
 
Pre-order
Je Mérite is a slow fashion luxury loungewear and self-care accoutrement brand, part of a manufacturing industry movement which prioritizes sustainability, ethics, and quality over mass production and fast-paced consumerism, known as fast-fashion

domestically sourced

sustainably packed

responsibly made

Welcome to the Je Mérite, I Deserve weekly bulletin - your dedicated space for inspiration, empowerment, and self-care
Translated from the French as "I deserve," Je Mérite is the essence of choosing one thing and doing it exceptionally well. With a focus on sleepwear, Tamara Thomas's debut collection features indispensable pieces, all in iconic black silk: a tap short, a cami, a gown, and a robe. An entire capsule loungewear wardrobe, all ethically made in NYC.
Every woman needs her collection of luxury boudoir. Shop Je Mérite for sexy silk slips, robes, and sets made for a wide range of body shapes with superior comfort.
Summer lounging all starts with sleek sets and chiffons pieces for a comfortable yet elevated look. Sustainable brand Je Mérite has an assortment of pieces to take from lounging in the house to outside the doors of your home. Je Mérite is created for every closet flattering a wide range of body shapes with superior comfort and finishing. With New York at the heart of the collection. All pieces use remnant fabrics sourced domestically in New York City.
Made of 100 percent silk charmeuse, this luxe robe from Je Mérite has an extra-soft, lightweight quality that doesn't feel too thin. The double-breasted wrap design falls just below the knee on most women, and the long bell sleeves add a posh touch. Besides relaxing in a hotel room or doing a self-care routine at home, it can be paired with a strappy heel and worn as a flirty going-out dress.