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week 43 - i deserve adventure, je mérite l’aventure

week 43 - i deserve adventure, je mérite l’aventure

“the purpose of life is to live it, to taste experience to the utmost, to reach out eagerly and without fear for newer and richer experience”

eleanor roosevelt

dearest muse,

 

adventure is not always found in faraway lands or stamped passports

sometimes, it lives in the courage to say yes to change, to follow your curiosity, and to begin again

at je mérite, i deserve, we believe that every woman and femme deserves adventure

to live adventurously is to invite the unknown with open hands and an open heart

this week’s affirmation is a call to reclaim wonder; to walk through life not with fear, but with faith that every new path will lead you closer to yourself

enjoy!

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as most week's

we start with meditation

a gentle reminder that you are not alone on your life adventures

you are supported, cherished, and held in the most loving energy that is much larger then ourselves

step into this week with a renewed sense of purpose, knowing that you have a powerful network of love and support to carry you through life's adventures

 

feel supported in your life's adventures (guided meditation)

by great meditation

next, in this blog post, we explore our wanderlust

start saying yes to the things that excite and challenge you

it could be an unexpected opportunity at work, a spontaneous trip, or even a new connection that leads you down a fresh path

 

screw what you heard: you don’t need to travel internationally to lead a fulfilled existence

by oneika the traveller

next, a great podcast

it’s no secret that girls, and women, haven’t traditionally had role models for adventure-seeking and exploration as we age

even as young girls, we’re taught to "be careful" while boys are taught to "be strong and brave"

in this podcast, author caroline paul, a longtime adventurer, discusses her book, touch broad, answering the question "shouldn’t we be experiencing adventure at any age?”

one thing that is clear: adventure doesn’t have to be some adrenaline filled, death-defying act, although there is some of that in this book

no, true adventure and self fulfillment can start with a walk outside

the more time you spend outdoors and the more positive your view on aging, the happier you will be

that can indeed make you a tough broad

 

caroline paul - become a tough broad and embrace outdoor adventure as you age

by i could never do that

next, a powerful book

in sisters in the wilderness, theologian delores s. williams reimagines the biblical story of Hagar as a journey of survival, self-discovery, and divine encounter

through the lens of womanist theology, she reminds us that adventure is not only found in movement, but in resilience, faith, and the courage to seek freedom in the wilderness

williams invites us to see adventure as a sacred act of reclaiming one’s voice and spirit, even when the path ahead is uncertain

sisters in the wilderness: the challenge of womanist god

by delores w williams

for this week's newsletter, we invite you to explore the documentary, sisters in the wilderness, a profound south african story of adventure that is also a journey of self-discovery

the film follows a group of young zulu women from townships and rural communities on a life-changing wilderness trail

led by guides, they immerse themselves in nature, camping under the stars in big game country

stripped of modern comforts, they face physical and emotional challenges that test their resilience and reveal their true strength

their adventure becomes a powerful exploration of personal growth, healing, and connection to the earth, highlighting that the most impactful journeys are often the ones we take inward

sisters of the wilderness

starring amanda ntombela, janet frangs, andile nxumalo, bongimpilo zondi, and lihle mbokazi

this week's ritual honors the spirit of exploration, curiosity, and courage

both inward and outward

it invites you to rediscover wonder in your daily life and to see yourself as the most thrilling journey of all


unfamiliar morning - change one small part of your morning routine: take a different route to work, try a new breakfast, listen to a new song; re-train your body to embrace the unexpected with joy rather than fear

micro adventure - step outside your usual path: visit a park you’ve never walked through, try a new café, explore a local art exhibit; treat your surroundings as if you’re traveling in a new city

light the candle - light your "i deserve adventure" candle; imagine its flame guiding you like a compass toward growth, freedom, and joy; let the scent awaken your inner explorer

enjoy!

 

adventure is a love letter to your courage

this week, may you follow curiosity wherever it calls

whether it’s booking a ticket, trying something that scares you, or finally giving yourself permission to dream again

with wanderlust and warmth,

you'll be hearing more from me soon

promise

 

tamara charese

as always, affirmations from previous weeks are available here

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