We've officially returned to work or back in our routines, and now... a reminder to celebrate yourself!
You've worked hard and you deserve it. Don't wait for anyone else to celebrate you. Do it yourself!
Celebrating yourself is important for acknowledging your achievements, milestones, and personal growth.
You are worthy of recognition. Affirm:
I DESERVE CELEBRATION (JE MÉRITE D'ÊTRE CÉLÉBRÉ)
Taking victory laps for small wins is just as important than celebrating the big ones.
What are you celebrating, and how do you plan to treat yourself?
Send me a note, I wanna know all about it!
Here’s your celebration guide for this week:
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PLAYLIST
This week, we need a bit more than a meditation. Celebration cannot be quite or demure. It must be loud.
This curated playlist is a tribute to the legendary women who taught us how to claim the spotlight and dance like nobody’s watching. From Donna Summer’s sultry anthems to Diana Ross’s timeless grooves, these tracks remind us that every day is worth celebrating—and so are you.
Put on your favorite silk loungewear, light your affirmation candle, and let this playlist transport you to a glittering dance floor where you’re the star. Because you deserve to be celebrated, always.
QUEENS OF DISCO
BY SPOTIFY
PODCAST
This week’s affirmation invites us to honor the beauty and brilliance within ourselves. To help you embrace this truth, we’re spotlighting a powerful podcast episode featuring motivational speaker and author Lisa Nichols.
In this episode, Lisa dives into the art of self-celebration—why it’s essential, how to release guilt around shining brightly, and practical ways to uplift yourself every single day. Her words are a soulful reminder that you are worthy of love, joy, and recognition simply because you exist.
WHY YOU MUST CELEBRATE YOURSELF ALONG THE JOURNEY
WITH LISA NICHOLS
BLOG/ JOURNAL PROMPT
This week, our affirmation reminds us that every accomplishment, big or small, is worthy of recognition. To deepen this idea, we’re sharing an insightful article from Psychology Today that explores the profound impact of celebrating your wins on your mental and emotional well-being.
As you read, light the I Deserve Joy candle, journal about your recent victories, and let this blog prompt inspire you to honor every step of your journey. Your efforts and achievements deserve to be celebrated, always.
FROM SMALL STEPS TO BIG WINS: THE IMPORTANCE OF CELEBRATING
BY LUKE COUTINHO
BOOK RECOMMENDATIONS
Next, we dive into our book recommendations.
Nothing is as daunting as a goal. Many of us struggle with achieving them - be it in life, health, love and career. When you set unrealistic goals and keep failing, your intelligently designed brain tries to protect you from the pain and negative emotions that come with failure.
SMALL WINS EVERY DAY: 100 POWERFUL WAYS TO TRANSFORM YOUR LIFE AND HEALTH
BY GRETCHEN RUBIN
FILM/ SERIES RECOMMENDATION
This week’s affirmation calls for an empowering dose of laughter, friendship, and fabulous revenge. Follow the journey of three women reclaiming their power, celebrating their resilience, and proving that life’s challenges are no match for a united sisterhood. It’s the perfect reminder that you, too, deserve to celebrate your strength—and maybe even have a little fun while you’re at it!
Slip into your coziest Je Mérite, I Deserve loungewear, pour yourself a glass of something sparkling, and enjoy this feel-good classic. Because there’s no better time to toast to yourself and the fabulous life you deserve. 🥂
THE FIRST WIVES CLUB
STARRING GOLDIE HAWN, BETTE MIDLER, & DIANE KEATON
YOUR "I DESERVE" AFFIRMATION RITUAL
Set the Mood by lighting the “I Deserve Joy” or “I Deserve Love” candle from Je Mérite, I Deserve, and let its luxurious scent set the tone for your ritual. Take a moment to pamper yourself. Run a warm bath infused with your favorite oils or body soak.
Dress for You by slipping into something that makes you feel radiant. Whether it’s the silky embrace of your Lola Silk Wrap Robe or the elegant flow of the Donna Chiffon Shirt Dress, wear what feels like a celebration of your body and spirit.
Write a Heartfelt Note to Yourself in your Je Mérite Weekly Affirmation Journal celebrating your recent achievements or qualities you adore about yourself. Big or small, every win counts.
Dance Like No One’s Watching and end your ritual with movement. Play our newsletter playlist to make you feel empowered and celebrated. Dance, sway, or twirl in celebration of your unique energy and light.
“It's true. A lot of people won't celebrate you until your wins feel "big" enough to them. But you can celebrate yourself now. You can be proud of every step you take and every sacrifice you make and you won't need other people's applause to be proud of how far you've come.”
MICHELL C CLARK
Remember: every moment spent honoring yourself is a celebration of the incredible person you are. You deserve it—today and always.
As always, affirmations from previous weeks are available here
You'll be hearing more from me soon. Promise.
Tamara Charese
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