"love without empathy, without forgiveness; love without accountability or boundaries, isn't actually love"
joel leon
dear muse,
in a world that often feels divided, disconnected, and uncertain, it's easy to forget the importance of empathy
both for others and for ourselves
empathy is the ability to understand and share the feelings of others
it's about stepping into someone else's shoes, seeing the world through their eyes, and responding with kindness, compassion, and understanding
but empathy isn't just about how we interact with others; it's also about how we treat ourselves
in times of stress, uncertainty, and self-doubt, it's essential to practice self-compassion and extend the same kindness to ourselves that we would to a friend in need
enjoy this week's love letter...
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our meditation
when empathy is turned inward...
radical compassion is our evolutionary capacity to include all living beings in our heart and to actively express our care
in this meditation, you learn rain (recognize-allow-investigate-nurture), an applied meditation for cultivating mindfulness-based compassion
radical self-compassion with tara brach
from calm
our podcast
in this episode tarana burke and brené brown discuss burke's theory of “empowerment through empathy” and the possibility of changing the way the world thinks and talks about sexual violence, consent, and social justice
tarana burke and brené on being heard and been
from unlocking us with brené brown
our journal prompt
a how-to… as some of us struggle with giving and receiving empathy - this may help
more and more, we live in bubbles
the result is an empathy deficit, and it's at the root of many of our biggest problems
it's because of how homogeneous people's social circles have become, and also because humans naturally hold biases
empathy can be developed
there are steps you can take to acknowledge your biases and to move beyond your worldviews to try to understand those held by other people
by kendra cherry, msed for verywellmind
our book selection
this novel follows three black women - kemi, brittany-rae, and muna, as they navigate life in sweden
it explores the "painful price" of navigating white-dominated spaces and is noted for its "deeply moving characters" who must find empathy for themselves and each other while battling racism and tokenism
by lola akinmade akerström
finally, our film selection
every once in a while, a film is in theatres that connects directly with our weekly affirmation
his recent release explores how empathy can lead to deradicalization
how the lack of empathy can lead to violence
the film examines the consequences of one's actions through an empathetic lens, showing how understanding can shift a character's perspective
starring zendaya, robert pattinson, alana haim, and mamoudou athie
your ritual
empathy begins at home, with you
before we extend compassion outward, we must first offer it inward
this self-love and self-care ritual is designed to soften the inner critic, hold space for your feelings, and honor you
self-compassion journal prompt write a moment this week you were hard on yourself, when write a empathetic response to yourself in the voice of a best friend
empathy altar moment light your affirmation candle, i recommend rest or peace, and sit in the glow for a few minutes and place a hand over your heart; let this be a moment of simply being; just being
soulful soundtrack play music that mirrors your feelings today; not to "change your mood" but to honor it; feel what needs to be felt; cry, sway, sing, breathe; let empathy flow through sound
in closing
you deserve to be met with empathy
by yourself and by the world around you
may this week be a soft reminder that your feelings are valid, your story matters, and you are worthy of deep care
as always, affirmations from pervious weeks are available here
you'll be hearing more from me soon
promise
tamara charese
as always, affirmations from previous weeks are available here
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