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affirm - je mérite la joie, i deserve joy

affirm - je mérite la joie, i deserve joy

“tomorrow's not promised, enjoy today, choose joy, choose peace, choose yourself”

michell c clark

dear muse,

 

at je mérite, i deserve, we believe that everyone deserves to experience joy and happiness in their daily lives

joy is not just a fleeting emotion; it's a state of being that nourishes your mind, body, and soul

our luxurious loungewear is designed to provide comfort and style, so you can feel pampered and cherished every day

remember, joy is your birthright

you deserve to experience happiness and fulfillment in all aspects of your life

treat yourself to the luxury of joy, and watch as it transforms your life

 

enjoy this week's love letter...

*all photos are links to more information, the bookshop.org link is an affiliate link

 

our meditation or playlist

 

once again, it's time to break out the grill and open the liquor cabinet for food and fellowship...

as we welcome in this new season, let's switch it up a bit... let's begin this summer with some of my favorite playlists

perfect for all your days at the park and the beach...

 

cookout applicants: blue eyed soul edition 

cookout essentials vol. i 

cookout essentials vol. ii 

by naima cochrane on spotify

our podcast

 

next, a radiant discussion on reclaiming joy without sacrificing ambition

this is especially for my worker bees

 

the hidden symptom stealing your joy & how to get it back with judith joseph 

from the rich roll podcast

our journal prompt

 

next, your journal prompt

“what brings me joy that i’ve been neglecting? how can I reclaim it this week?”

rediscover the simple joy of being alive by embracing seven playful, curious and freeing qualities you left behind in childhood

 

return to joy: 7 childlike qualities adults can reclaim to feel alive again 

by mr anks for medium.com

Book titled 'Think Again' by Jacqueline Wilson held in front of a green leafy background

our book selection

 

adulthood isn't quite what ellie allard dreamed it would be when she was fourteen years old

though she's got her beautiful daughter Lottie, her trusty cat Stella and life-long best friends in Magda and Nadine, her love life is non-existent and she feels like she's been living on auto-pilot, just grateful to be able to afford the rent on her poky little flat

but this year on her birthday, it seems it's time for all that to change - whether Ellie wants it to or not

as she navigates new, exciting and often choppy waters, she's about to discover that life will never stop surprising you - if only you let it

enjoy

 

think again

by jacqueline wilson

finally, our film selection

 

a coming-of-age comedy-drama about 18-year-old elliott, who, after an 18th birthday mushroom trip, is visited by her 39-year-old self (aubrey plaza) who gives her life advice, forcing her to re-evaluate her family, love life, and future as she spends a transformative summer on her family's farm

enjoy!

 

my old ass

starring maisy stella, aubrey plaza, and percy hynes white; directed and written by megan park

your ritual

 

joy is not a reward you earn, but a state of being you’re allowed to return to again and again

whether it arrives in bursts of belly laughter, quiet moments of delight, or the smallest sparkle in your day, this self-love and self-care ritual is your invitation to welcome joy back into your life… intentionally, unapologetically

 

enjoy this week's rituals

joy journaling each evening, jot down 3 things that brought you joy that day, no matter how small; over time, this becomes a love letter to your most radiant self

dressing joyful choose an outfit that makes you feel alive—whether that’s a silky set in citron or your coziest lounge look; dress for your mood or the mood you want to invite in

celebrate something random toast to the small wins; you finished that task? you kept a boundary? you made your bed? pour sparkling water or champagne and raise your glass; joy deserves celebration

 

in closing

 

no matter what your day holds, remember: you are worthy of joy in every season and in every stage

joy is not a prize at the end of productivity or perfection

by carving out space for joy, you’re not just caring for yourself, you’re honoring your spirit

your joy is sacred

your joy is necessary


 

you'll be hearing more from me soon

promise

 

tamara charese

as always, affirmations from previous weeks are available here

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