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affirm - je mérite l'optimisme, i deserve optimism

affirm - je mérite l'optimisme, i deserve optimism

“i can't be a pessimist because i am alive. to be a pessimist means that you have agreed that human life is an academic matter. so, i am forced to be an optimist. i am forced to believe that we can survive, whatever we must survive”

james baldwin

dear muse,

 

it's not lost on me that optimism is a privilege

a privilege we all deserve

 

optimism isn’t about ignoring reality—it’s about believing in your ability to move through it

it’s seeing the closed door and the possibility of a window

it’s trusting that your story is still unfolding in beautiful ways

it’s choosing to notice the small joys: the warmth of tea in your hands, the sound of laughter from another room, the morning light spilling across your pillow

 

let's believe in the possibility of a better moment, minute, hour...

 

you deserve to imagine the best-case scenario

you deserve to believe that the good is not gone

here’s your weekly ritual for cultivating and holding hope

 

enjoy this week's love letter...

*all photos are links to more information, the bookshop.org link is an affiliate link

our meditation or playlist

 

in this meditation, you will be practicing an affirmation to start your day with energy, optimism, and awareness

by repeating this affirmation every morning you will make them stronger and over time they will become part of your daily life

the habit of being optimistic and raising awareness every day will help you live a more complete life


this guided meditation works gently and effortlessly

enjoy!

 

start your day with energy, optimism, and awareness

from insight timer

our podcast or playlist

 

what gives you hope?

this week, we are channeling the curiosity and humor of yara shahidi's the optimist project

real change starts with the deliberate choice to look for the light

discover key insights from iconic voices on finding stillness, building sustainable purpose, and choosing authenticity over popularity

 

the optimist project

from actress and activist yara shahidi

our journal prompt

 

leo season is believed to be a season of manifestation

this is a blog teaches methods and practices to live more abundantly

luck isn't magic

here's to training your brain to spot the love and opportunities that were always there waiting for you

 

psa: it’s the perfect time to try the “lucky girl syndrome” manifestation method

from the everygirl

our book selection

 

daphne "dee dee" dupree is a charismatic, 41-year-old chicago radio dj who refuses to let past romantic catastrophes and personal insecurities keep her down

it is a soulful, uplifting story about a woman actively choosing to celebrate her present and rediscover love on her own terms

 

i left my back door open

by april sinclair

finally, our film selection

 

lastly, a film about optimism that completely caught me off-guard…

marcel the shell with shoes on is a feature-length ‘mockumentory’ based on the youtube series of the same name

part stop animation and part live action, it follows the story of marcel, a one inch tall shell, and his journey to find his community

whimsical, imaginative and utterly charming, marcel the shell with shoes on is a heartwarming drama about finding your place

 

marcel the shell with shoes on

starring jenny slate, dean fleischer camp, & isabella rossellini

your ritual

 

a self-love ritual for embracing optimism

 

reserve time for reflection take a few minutes this week and write 3 moments from each day that brought you joy or made you smile — no matter how small

optimism bath or shower ritual light you rest, peace, healing, or joy candle to soothe and refresh. wisualize washing away heavy thoughts and making space for brighter ones

create an optimism board create a small collage of colors, quotes, and images that spark joy. keep it somewhere visible. reflect on it often

 

in closing



optimism is not weakness

it’s an inner strength that keeps you moving forward

keep believing in what’s possible

 

may this week meet you with unexpected joys, gentle reassurance, and reasons to believe


with love,

tamara charese

as always, affirmations from previous weeks are available here

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