“every day that i'm living is an opportunity to romanticize my life -- lighting candles reminds me that I deserve romance, and it encourages me to stay present in the beauty that each day can provide”
xonecole
dear muse,
romance is often misunderstood as something external
a gesture, a partner, a moment we wait to receive
but true romance begins within
it is the way you move through your life with intention, tenderness, and reverence for your own heart
romance is slowing down to savor beauty
romance is choosing pleasure without apology
romance is allowing softness to coexist with strength
this week, we invite you to reimagine romance as a relationship with yourself, your desires, and the life you are creating
enjoy this week's love letter...
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our meditation
imagine waking up each day feeling like the protagonist of your own love story?
this week’s meditation is your invitation to infuse everyday moments with beauty, intention, and deep self-love
whether it’s sipping your morning coffee like it’s a parisian café moment, wrapping yourself in silk as an act of devotion, or lighting an affirmation candle to set the mood for your dreams, this meditation will help you see the magic in the mundane
because romance isn’t just for storybooks — you deserve to feel adored, cherished, and swept off your feet by life itself
by wonderfully made
our podcast
winter isn’t just a season
it’s a whole mood, and you deserve to soak up every cozy, moment
this week’s podcast entry is your guide to turning chilly days into a season of self-love
whether you're indulging in a luxurious bath, journaling by the fire wrapped in silk, or setting the mood with your favorite affirmation candle, this podcast episode will inspire you to see the beauty in every moment
how to romanticize your winter
with lauren norris
our journal prompt
life isn’t just something to get through
it’s something to fall in love with, every single day
this week’s journal prompt is a masterclass in turning the ordinary into something extraordinary
from sipping your morning tea in silk loungewear to creating candlelit rituals with our affirmation candles, this article is filled with simple, intentional ways to add beauty, joy, and passion to your daily routine
by courtney imade of the real chic life
our book selection
deeply romantic, emotionally rich story about love that lingers, evolves, and asks to be met with honesty and tenderness
at its heart, this novel reminds us that bringing more romance into our lives begins with vulnerability
with allowing ourselves to feel deeply, communicate openly, and believe that love can be both passionate and gentle
a beautiful, heart-opening read for anyone ready to invite more depth, softness, and romance into their life
by kennedy ryan
finally, our film selection
a playful, modern rom-com that explores friendship, self-discovery, and the many ways romance can show up when we stop forcing it
with humor and heart, the film reminds us that romance isn’t only about finding “the one”, it’s also about learning how to enjoy your own company, honor your desires, and stay open to love in all its forms
a light, affirming watch that encourages softness, confidence, and possibility
streaming on netflix starring fulu mugovhani, thabo malema, and tiffany barbuzano
your romance ritual
here’s how to infuse a little more passion, beauty, and love into your routine:
morning love letter start your day with a love note to yourself; write down one thing you adore about who you are and what makes you feel beautiful
dress for romance slip into something that makes you feel elegant and desired, even if it’s just for you; a silk robe, a soft camisole, or a touch of perfume — because romance begins with how you treat yourself
set the mood light an affirmation candle, turn on a dreamy playlist, and let the ambiance transport you into your own love story
indulge the senses savor a treat like fresh berries, dark chocolate, or a warm cup of spiced tea
a date with yourself curl up with a book that sweeps you away, watch a film that makes your heart flutter, or take yourself out for an intimate dinner — because you deserve to be wined and dined, even by yourself
every moment can be a love story when you decide to make yourself the main character
in closing
romance does not require permission
it does not wait for perfection or partnership
it begins the moment you decide your life deserves beauty
may this week invite you to soften, savor, and open — to love in all its forms
you'll be hearing more from me soon
promise
tamara charese
as always, affirmations from previous weeks are available here
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