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affirm - je mérite d’être responsabilisé, i deserve to be empowered

affirm - je mérite d’être responsabilisé, i deserve to be empowered

"it is our duty to fight for our freedom. it is our duty to win. we must love each other and support each other. we have nothing to lose but our chains."

assata shakur

dear muse,

 

empowerment is not always loud

sometimes, it is the quiet decision to trust yourself

 

to speak honestly

to honor a boundary

to take up space without asking permission

to choose what feels true for you, even when it asks you to leave behind an old version of yourself

 

you are not waiting to become empowered

you are learning that the power has been yours all along

 

enjoy this week's love letter...

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our meditation or playlist

 

rooted in power


close your eyes, breathe deeply, and picture yourself surrounded by your ancestors

those who fought, spoke, and dreamed so you could stand tall

with each inhale, imagine their strength flowing into you

with each exhale, carry their legacy forward

 

a meditation for building true confidence to start your day

by mindful movement

our podcast or playlist

 

if you’re tired of listening to a voice that beats you down, fills you with doubt, and argues against your goals and dreams, it’s time to change your thinking

this podcasts empowers you with the steps you need to start programming a more positive, empowering, and confident mindset and make talking to yourself in a positive way a new habit starting today

 

enjoy this week's podcast

 

how to stop screwing yourself over

by the mel robbins podcast

our journal prompt

 

we’ve all been there

we feel stuck by feelings of self-doubt and inadequacy

these feelings overwhelm us, leaving us feeling unempowered, out of control, and even hopeless

although these feelings are just a part of the human condition, there are many things that you can do to get out of that slump and feel more empowered in your life

 

eight ways to feel more empowered in your life

by life purpose institute

our book selection

 

this captivating, dual-timeline novel weaves together the stories of two women separated by decades but united by the same fierce desire for autonomy

in the 1970s, we meet Eddie, a former socialite who sheds her old life to build a wilderness retreat aimed at helping women unlock their inner independence

in the present day, we follow Rowan, an aspiring screenwriter whose life has stalled, who uncovers Eddie’s old journals and finds the spark she needs to rewrite her own future

it is a beautiful, inspiring mystery about what happens when women stop asking for permission and start claiming their power

enjoy!

 

what wild women do

by karma brown

finally, our film selection

 

a soulful comedy starring Michelle Buteau as Mavis Beaumont, a 38-year-old assistant stylist forced to rebuild her life in Brooklyn after a devastating breakup

Mavis fights to overcome a scarcity mindset, conquer self-doubt, and find profound joy by leaning on her vibrant community and learning to fully appreciate herself

 

survival of the thickest

starring michelle buteau, tone bell, & marouane zotti

your ritual

 

empowerment doesn't always arrive with a grand gesture

sometimes, it begins with remembering that your voice matters, your desires are valid, and you are allowed to choose yourself

the voice ritual - speak one truth you’ve been holding back; set aside 5 minutes and ask yourself: “what do I wish I could say?” write the answer without editing yourself; no overexplaining or apologizing

the choice ritual - make one decision that honors you; think of one choice you've been postponing because you're worried about disappointing someone, making the “wrong” decision, or needing approval; choose one small action and take it today

the take-up-space ritual - practice being fully present without shrinking; for one day, notice every moment you make yourself smaller—physically, verbally, emotionally, or energetically; stop apologizing for something that doesn't require an apology; finish your sentence without minimizing your thoughts; ask for what you want directly; accept a compliment with a simple “thank you”

 

may you move through this week with a little more trust in your own knowing and a little less need for permission

enjoy!

 

in closing


empowerment is not given, it is claimed

it is the daily act of choosing to rise, even when it feels easier to shrink

it is the courage to honor your truth, to protect your peace, and to create change that ripples far beyond yourself

as you step into this week, remember, each boundary you set, each truth you speak, each dream you pursue becomes a bridge that someone else will one day cross with greater ease


with love,

tamara charese

as always, affirmations from previous weeks are available here

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