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week 46 - i deserve vulnerability, je mérite la vulnérabilité

week 46 - i deserve vulnerability, je mérite la vulnérabilité

“power revealed is power sacrificed. the truly powerful exert their influence in ways unseen, unfelt. some would say that a thing visible is a thing vulnerable”

guillermo del toro

dearest muse,

 

to be vulnerable is to be alive

to open your heart, even when it trembles

 

at je mérite, i deserve, we believe that softness is a sacred strength

 

vulnerability is not weakness

it is the art of being seen, heard, and known

fully, honestly, and without disguise



this week, we invite you to explore vulnerability, as a path to deeper connection with yourself, your emotions, and those who hold space for your truth

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with each exhale, let go of the walls you’ve built to survive

a meditation encouraging the embrace of our vulnerability, acknowledging our imperfections, and fears

discover inner strength: guided meditation for embracing vulnerability and openness

by breath of meditation

next, an oldie but goodie podcast episode from one of my favorites, brené brown

the power of vulnerability

by brené brown for TED

next, a blog post, exploring the importance of being vulnerable with yourself

that connection, that honesty, that authenticity

six ways to be more vulnerable with yourself

from well-nest

this week, a classic novel which explores the immense vulnerability in humanity

through the eyes of a creature, physical and emotional, stemming from his lack of social connection, to his creator's more psychological and ethical vulnerability exposed by the horrific results of his actions

frankenstein

by mary shelley

finally our film

i thought we were done with spooky season, and i was wrong : )

a film from one of my favorite writer/ directors

inspired by mary shelley's tale, guillermo del toro writes his own frankenstein

challenging patriarchy and it's lack of humanity is this gruesomely beautiful film

frankenstein

by guillermo del toro, starring oscar issac and jacob elordi

your ritual this week

to be vulnerable is to live open-heartedly

to allow your truth to breathe without apology

this ritual invites you to gently disarm your defenses and reconnect with the parts of yourself that crave to be seen, felt, and loved as they are

practice honest expression when you're asked how you're feeling, actually tell someone; someone you trust, of course; this week, instead of the normal "i'm fine", say truly how you are feeling

softening as the sun sets, create an intimate space — dim lights, soft music, and your favorite silk robe or nightdress and take out your journal; write down three emotions you’ve felt today but didn’t express; forgive yourself for not telling your truth and repeat

enjoy!

 

this week, allow yourself to be seen

by the world, by those you love, and most importantly, by yourself

let each act of vulnerability be a gentle reminder that your heart is brave, your emotions are valid, and your presence is a gift

 

you'll be hearing more from me soon

promise

 

tamara charese

as always, affirmations from previous weeks are available here

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