This site has limited support for your browser. We recommend switching to Edge, Chrome, Safari, or Firefox.


I Deserve Romance (Je Mérite La Romance)

In 2020, a creator on TikTok, Ashley Ward, recorded a voice over of a poem that sparked a trend:

Romanticizing your life

Appreciating the small things… seeking joy, contentment, and gratitude in the magnificent and the modest; infusing your life with passion and joy.


This week's affirmation is…

I Deserve Romance

Je Mérite La Romance


Infuse some romance into your life...

Savor the little moments, whether it's enjoying a cup of tea, taking a leisurely stroll, or simply appreciating the beauty around you.

Rediscover forgotten passions and hobbies.

Treat yourself to a home spa day and pamper yourself.

Set the mood for yourself with a candlelit dinner.

Take yourself on an adventure. Whether it's a solo day trip, a hike, or exploring a new city..

Create a home sanctuary. Design a space in your home that brings you comfort and joy. Surround yourself with things that make you feel happy and at peace.

*All photos are links to more information. The link is an affiliate link


We'll start this week with a blog post...

Self-love, by definition, is the unique sense of appreciation, kindness, and compassion we have toward ourselves.

It’s a sense of unconditional care toward our emotional, mental, and physical selves.

While there are many ways to practice self-love, romanticizing life is my favorite because it adds excitement to a typical dull day. 

How To Romanticize Your Life In 30 Basic Ways

from Riyah Speaks


Next, a meditation...

We are just a few weeks into this new year, and our resolutions are forming. What are you welcoming into your life this year? What do you wanto see and experience? This visualization exercise is an opportunity to use meditation to get more clear on the path you are already on. 

Meditation: Romanticize Your Life

from Wonderfully Made Podcast


Next, a vlog that I thought was adorable and mindful...

FALLING IN LOVE WITH LIFE AGAIN: how I romanticize my life every day & become the *main character*

by Alexis Sparks (YouTube)


Next, our book selection is another re-read

Romanticize Your Life: 365 Simple Ways to Embrace the Beauty of Every Day

by Harper Celebrate

Tucked within every day are simple opportunities to live with greater mindfulness and joy every season, 365 days a year.

Through engaging illustrations and dated, daily inspirations for every season, Romanticize Your Life offers creative ideas for infusing magnificence into ordinary moments.


Lastly, a love story!

Under the Tuscan Sun

starring Diane Lane, Raould Bova, Sandra Oh


Martini: "I think you got your wish."

Frances: "My wish?"

Martini: "On that day we looked for the snake, you said you wanted there to be a wedding here. And you said... you wanted there to be a family here."

Frances: "You're right... I got my wish. I got everything I asked for."


A bonus film... a fresh love story that'll make your night...if you haven't seen it

Rye Lane

starring David Jonsson & Vivian Oparah


“You have to start romanticizing your life. You have to start thinking of yourself as the main character.  Because if you don't, life will continue to pass you by and all of the little things that make it so beautiful will continue to go unnoticed. So take a second, look around and realize it's a blessing for you to be here right now.”

Ashley Ward


as always, affirmations from previous weeks are available here


you'll be hearing more from me soon. Promise.


tamara charese

Leave a comment

Please note, comments must be approved before they are published

wear as a duster or a wrap robe wear as soft suiting, mini dress, blazer dress  slits at either side for access to pockets  made in the softest washed silk charmeuse  wear barefoot, with a soft fuzzy slipper for a night in, or a strappy heel for a night on the town  soft collar belt (removable at hidden back loop) relaxed fit mini length  washed 100% silk charmeuse  designed in new york city, new york made in new york city, new york   size details - available in 0/2-20/22

sign up for newsletter for 15% off your first order


Congratulations! Your order qualifies for free shipping Free shipping on all US orders
No more products available for purchase